— Anaïs Nin"
In a relationship with theministryofsillykisses
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this is the last time I’ll protest my straightness before reblogging a pic which is great as ART and just happens to be of the male side of humanity
Do you like nuts? take more than a nibble…
(via art-or-porn)
my favourite blog I found today -and I’m glad to see I’m not the only one who’s thought that before when a beautiful girl is holding a cello between her legs :)
the teacher…
My intuition tells me that open expression and acceptance of dominance/submission behaviours in a relationship, primarily in mutualistic forms, is more conducive, or even necessary, to full sexual intimacy -intimacy in the sense of being empathically tuned-in to each other and sympathetically aroused by giving each other pleasure.
It seems to me that dominance/submission behaviours of various kinds are so innate and far deeper than the conscious, rational mind in all human social interractions that to deny them in an intimate relationship would require quite constant inner and outer resistance, conflict and repression, but if a parter is seen to be reasonably trustworthy, then the risk of trusting and allowing them to be dominant does not matter compared to the benefit of more spontaneous, complete intimacy.
The massive trust implied in being given consent to sexually dominate a lover is probably the deepest appeal in bdsm for me. I’m not always deep tho, sometimes I just want to FUCK!!! ;-)
A frequent favourite. Sometimes I also like the one foot forward variation, the up on both feet, hands on her back for more downward force variation, and the one foot on the side of her head variation. Grinding my dick into her ass at twisty angles and then ramming her cervix to make her moan also makes my guts growl! I like making the knot on her back big so it’s handy for grabbing onto to pull her into me as I thrust, for more force and more gorgeous groaning screaming sounds.
The purpose of sexual slavery is sex, not domestic chores! I can probably cook better than most girls anyway! (feel free to take that as a challenge!) ;-)
screaming satisfaction!
This is what I mean when I say that I can play sadistic really to give my partner happiness, which is really the exact opposite of sadism.
Some pain in the right context while sexually aroused can transform into pleasure, or register as just a more intense form of pleasure.
Owning her ass is hot! Feeling sexually possessed is also a part of (or can be part of a way into at first) experiencing secure emotional attachment, especially if that has been difficult before. (Depends on many other factors, of course.)
Mutual generous sexual love is the basis for a real relationship, sadism for me is just play secondarily within that. Consensual sadomasochism is as different from ‘really for real’, unhealthy sadomasochism as normal rough sex is from real rape; it may seem a subtle distinction but it’s really a radical one and makes a total difference. I have no attraction to real rape or non-consensual, really-for-real sadism AT ALL; perhaps my attraction to just-for-play sadism and consensual non-consent is really BALANCING my tendency to be TOO reluctant to take what I want, when my satisfaction is part of my partner’s satisfaction too -or too little self-love and not too much selfishness. Sexuality in the mind is so complex, certainly what appears to be one way can actually come from exactly the opposite source of motivation, and its not easy as an outsider to tell the difference, but as a partner obvious.
Beautiful natural hairy pussy! Why shave it?! Isn’t the natural one in the top right picture more beautiful?! Clean, fresh, healthy and natural is all I want! Healthy pussy smell is intoxicatingly attractive -just make sure the bacteria are right, diet is good smell compatible, sweat is fresh exercise sweat not stressed office work sweat, and showered fairly recently. (Bacterial Vaginosis is common, horrible, but easily cured.) And legs -soft, fine womanly hair is fine, better than stuble from shaving for sure, and as long as a woman’s legs aren’t hairy like a man’s, I don’t see any problem. The natural feminine kind of soft, pale, fine body hair (even if it’s quite long) is part of being womanly and of optimal child-raising age -and that’s much more attractive to me than if she imitates a pre-pubescent girl with no body hair.